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A simple pre-trip routine has honestly become one of the biggest things that helps our family travel days feel less stressful and more organized.
I’ve always been a planner, especially when it comes to travel. I’m not someone who waits until the last minute to pack. Over time, I’ve fallen into a pre-trip routine that works well for how I like to get ready for a trip.
It’s simple and flexible, but it helps everything come together in a way that feels organized. It’s changed a bit as our kids have grown and our trips have looked different, but the overall routine has stayed pretty consistent.
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Our Pre-Trip Routine for Family Travel
Here’s what that pre-trip routine looks like for us in the days leading up to a trip. Nothing complicated, just a series of small things we do ahead of time so everything comes together more easily.
1. We Start Early and Spread It Out Over the Week
I’ve found that starting a few days ahead of time makes a big difference. Instead of setting aside one big block of time, I gather things little by little throughout the week leading up to a trip.
It keeps everything moving without feeling like a big task all at once, and it gives me time to remember anything I might have otherwise forgotten.
2. Everyone Has a Packing List (That Changes Over Time)
I keep packing lists on my computer for each type of trip—Disney, Europe, all-inclusive beach, weekend getaways, and more. Each person has their own list, along with a general list for things we all need.
Before each trip, I adjust them based on where we’re going and what stage we’re in. As the kids have gotten older, things like contacts, braces, and even what they like to bring have all changed, so the lists evolve with us.
I go into more detail on exactly what we pack in our Caribbean all-inclusive packing list for families.
3. The Kids Pack (With Guidance)
Each of my kids gets their own list and is responsible for packing most of their things. It’s not perfect, but they’ve gotten better at it over time, and it gives them some ownership in the process.
Now that they’re older, I’m not going in and reorganizing everything the way I used to. I still check in and make sure the basics are covered, but for the most part, I’m overseeing it rather than taking over.
4. Suitcases Are Out Early in Our Pre-Trip Routine
A few days before we leave, I put everyone’s suitcase in their bedroom. That way, things can be added throughout the week instead of all at once.
It’s a simple part of our pre-trip routine, but it makes everything easier to keep track of.
5. We Use Packing Cubes to Stay Organized
Once things start going into the suitcase, we use packing cubes to keep everything organized. It makes it easier to see what’s packed and keeps things from getting mixed together.
The kids’ cubes are actually labeled from going to camp each summer—things like t-shirts, pajamas, and so on—so it’s really easy for them to see what goes where and pack on their own.
One of the things I like most about packing cubes is that once we arrive, we can take them right out of the suitcase and place them in the drawers. Everything stays organized for the whole trip without having to unpack all over again.
6. Backpacks Are Set Up Ahead of Time in Our Pre-Trip Routine
We all use a backpack for the plane, and I set those out a few days before we leave. As the week goes on, we add things like a book, earbuds, or anything we’ll want easy access to.
By the time travel day comes, they’re already mostly ready.
7. I Check Medications and Essentials Early
About five days before a trip, I make sure we have enough of any medications we might need. If anything is running low, I have time to refill or pick it up without having to think about it later. I’ll also make sure anything important is set aside so it’s ready to go.
8. I Pick Up What We Need the Weekend Before
During our usual weekend shopping trip, I grab anything we’ll need for travel—snacks, toiletries, or anything specific to that trip. I also try to be mindful of what we’re buying that week, using up anything that might go bad before we leave.
Sometimes I’ll even schedule a grocery delivery for the day after we get back, which makes that first day home a little easier.
9. We Confirm Plans
A few days before we leave, I confirm reservations and make sure everything is set.
This is also when I make sure things like travel insurance are set, especially for bigger trips.
If we need transportation when we arrive, I like to have that booked ahead of time as well.
For trips where we’re planning activities, I’ll also make sure any tours or excursions are booked ahead of time.
10. We Share Our Schedule
I also let family or neighbors know we’ll be away so they can keep an eye on things if needed.
If we’re traveling during the school year, we let teachers know ahead of time and again closer to the trip. The kids try to finish anything they can before we leave. If you’re trying to balance travel with school, I shared more of our honest approach to missing school for family travel.
11. Important Documents Are Set Aside Early
Passports, IDs, and any important information are put aside a few days in advance. I often print key details, even if I have them on my phone, just to have a backup.
12. I Check Things Off as We Pack
As things go into the suitcase, they get checked off the list. If something needs to be packed the morning of, I circle it so it doesn’t get missed.
13. A Few Final Logistics Before We Go
There are a few small things I take care of in the days leading up to a trip. For longer trips, I’ll have our mail held, and if we’re driving, I usually get gas the day before. I also make sure any bills due while we’re away are set to be paid.
If we’re flying, I check in right at the 24-hour mark so everything is set before travel day.
14. The Night Before in Our Pre-Trip Routine
By the night before, most things are already packed. We just finish up what’s left and set out clothes for the next day so the morning feels more straightforward.
15. Travel Morning Is a Final Sweep
Before we leave, we do a quick but thorough check of the house—locks, lights, thermostat, and anything else we want to double-check before heading out.
16. I Update Our Packing Lists After Every Trip
After we get home, I take a few minutes to adjust our packing lists based on what we actually used. If something never left the suitcase, it usually comes off the list. If we wished we had something, I add it in for next time.
Over time, this has made our lists much more accurate, and it makes getting ready for the next trip feel even more straightforward.
Quick Recap: Our Pre-Trip Routine
- Start early and spread things out over the week
- Use packing lists for each person and each type of trip
- Have the kids pack with guidance
- Put suitcases out ahead of time
- Use packing cubes to stay organized
- Set up backpacks a few days before
- Check medications and essentials early
- Pick up what you need the weekend before
- Confirm reservations and plans
- Share your schedule with family or neighbors
- Set aside important documents
- Check things off as you pack
- Take care of final logistics before leaving
- Finish packing the night before
- Do a final sweep of the house on travel morning
- Update packing lists after each trip
Our Pre-Trip Routine for Family Travel
This is just what works for our family, but having a routine like this makes it easier to get ready for a trip.
A lot of this routine comes from small lessons we’ve learned over time, which I shared in these smart travel tips that made our trips easier.
This method is especially helpful during busy seasons of life, which I talked more about in traveling with kids during busy seasons.
FAQs About Our Pre-Trip Routine
How early should you start packing for a family trip?
For us, starting a few days early makes a huge difference. Doing a little at a time feels much less stressful than trying to pack everything the night before.
Do packing cubes really help for family travel?
Yes. Packing cubes make it much easier to stay organized both while packing and once you arrive at your destination. We use them on almost every trip now.
How do you keep kids involved in packing?
Each of our kids has their own packing list and packs most of their own things with guidance from us. It’s helped them become much more independent over time.
What should you do a few days before a trip?
A few days before a trip is when we check medications, confirm reservations, set aside important documents, and start organizing backpacks and suitcases.
What makes travel days less stressful for families?
For us, the biggest thing is spreading everything out ahead of time instead of trying to do it all at once. Having a routine makes travel mornings feel much calmer and more manageable.
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